OUTProfiles: Will Roscoe and the Many Ways to be Queer

Author Will Roscoe

Will Roscoe is a prolific writer who has influenced many LGBTQ people by exploring the ways other cultures express, and often celebrate different genders and sexualities.

Roscoe has been active in the the Gay movement since 1975, when he helped found Lambda, the first Gay/Lesbian organization in Montana. The following year, he served an intern at the National Gay Task Force, and in 1977, as coordinator of the Gay People’s Alliance at the University of Oregon, he spearheaded the formation of the Oregon Gay Alliance, a statewide coalition of Gay/Lesbian groups. In 1978, he completed an internship at the Pacific Center for Human Growth in Berkeley, where he coordinated a successful campaign to win United Way funding, the first Lesbian/Gay social service agency in the country to do so. He also served as voter registration coordinator for the No on 6 campaign in San Francisco (the Briggs initiative), registering over 10,000 new voters.

In 1979, he attended the first radical faerie gathering in Arizona, where he met Harry Hay, and became involved in efforts that led to the founding of Nomenus, which today operates a retreat in Southern Oregon. In 1980, with Tede Mathews and other local artists he organized “Mainstream Exiles: a Lesbian and Gay Men’s Cultural Festival” and between 1980 and 1982, he published and edited with Bradley Rose Vortex: A Journal of New Vision. In 1984, he became Project Coordinator for the Gay American Indians History Project and edited Living the Spirit, A Gay American Indian Anthology (Stonewall Inn Editions).

Roscoe’s research on the Native American berdache or two-spirit tradition has appeared in numerous journals and publications. His book, The Zuni Man-Woman (University of New Mexico Press), received the Margaret Mead Award of the American Anthropological Association and a Lambda Literary Award. He has since published Queer Spiritss: A Gay Men’s Myth Book (Beacon) and edited Radically Gay : Gay Liberation in the Words of Its Founder (Beacon) by Harry Hay. He is also co-editor of Islamic Homosexualities: Culture, History, and Literature (New York University Press) and Boy-Wives and Female Husbands: Studies in African Homosexualities (St. Martin’s, 1998). In 1998 he publishedChanging Ones: Third and Fourth Genders in Native North America (St. Martin’s, 1998) a comprehensive series of studies of two-spirit people and traditions. His most recent book, Jesus and the Shamanic Tradition of Same-Sex Love (Suspect Thoughts, 2004) received a Lambda Literary Award for best work in religion/spirituality.

Roscoe holds a Ph.D. in History of Consciousness from the University of California, Santa Cruz. He has taught in Anthropology, Native American Studies, and American Studies at UC/Santa Cruz, San Francisco State University, UC/Berkeley, the California Institute of Integral Studies, and Dominican College, and he is adjunct faculty for the Institute for Transpersonal Psychology. From 1991-1995 he was an affiliated scholar with the Institute for Research on Women and Gender at Stanford University.

In 2003, he received a Monette-Horowitz Achievement Award for research and scholarship combatting homophobia.

adapted from www.willsworld.org

Must Read Classics for the Bisexual Community and Allies

Bisexual Books

Beautiful Mind:
A Biography of John Forbes Nash, Jr., Winner of the Nobel Prize in Economics
Sylvia Nasar’s detailed biography of the man, his achievements, and his descent into mental illness is as affectionate towards its subject as it is probing into the often oddly parallel worlds of academia and mental hospitals, genius and madness.
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Getting Bi
Voices of Bisexuals Around the World
A collection of 220 personal essays from 185 bi+ authors from 42 countries edited by Robyn Ochs and Sarah Rowley.
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Elegy for Iris
A biography of noted literary critic, novelist, activist, bisexual, and wife Iris Murdoch.
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Bisexual and Gay Husbands
Their Stories, Their Words
This collection of real e-mails from an Internet mailing list offers an intimate look into the lives and thoughts of gay and bisexual men who are married to women. Men at all stages of the coming out process share their experiences, secrets, pain, and hope. Klein is a psychiatrist and editor of the Journal of Bisexuality.
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Bisexual Politics: Theories, Queries, and Visions
A collection of essays by bisexual activists.
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Hybrid
Bisexuals, Multiracials, and other Misfits Under American Law
Ruth Colker here argues that our bipolar classification system obscures a genuine understanding of the very nature of subordination. By rejecting conventional bipolar categories, we can broaden our understanding of sexuality, gender race, and disability.
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The Bisexual Option
Bisexuals are often misunderstood and feel that they don’t belong as they are not truly accepted by straights or gays in most cases. To generalize, straights think we are gays in denial, while gays think we are gay but our ‘gaydar’ is off, so to speak. This book gives comfort to the bisexual who is looking for their identity and where they fit in the scheme of things.
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Blessed Bi Spirit
Bisexual People of Faith
A collection of essays on bisexual people of faith.
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Bisexual Spaces
A Geography of Sexuality and Gender
Where are all the bisexuals? This elusive subject is explored in provocative fashion by Clare Hemmings in Bisexual Spaces. In a society dominated by an either/or mentality, bisexuality often defies explanation.
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Bi Lives
Bisexual Women Tell Their Stories
Bi Lives contains 18 in-depth, revealing interviews with bisexual women. They include bisexual political organizers, such as Lani Ka’ahumanu; women who identified as lesbians; disabled women; nurse-midwives; visual and performance artists; and an HIV-positive woman.
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It’s Called Polyamory

It's Called Polyamory

It’s Called “Polyamory”: Coming Out About Your Nonmonogamous Relationships

The time has come to tell your friends and family about your preference for nonmonogamy. You’re on the cusp of self-liberation—so why does it feel so daunting, or even scary, like you’re about to confess to some sinister transgression? This is normal. You are not alone. Even in progressive families and communities, people who practice nonmonogamy are susceptible to misinformation and accusations of moral and emotional failings. Facing this requires its own coming out and education process.

Let this book be your roadmap for explaining the expansive intricacies of the consensual nonmonogamy spectrum. Tamara Pincus and Rebecca Hiles fuse personal experience and community research to break down the various incarnations of polyamorous relationship structures, the intersections of polyamory with race and gender, and the seemingly esoteric jargon of the lifestyle. If you absolutely have to explain what a “unicorn hunter” is to your auntie, Tamara has you covered.

“Can poly people raise children? Can they live normal, healthy lives?” Such questions, grounded in myths typical of those faced by sexual minorities, are eloquently answered, and the real dangers of being out as poly in a monogamy-centered society are frankly laid bare.

No matter the conversation you’re going in, It’s Called “Polyamory” helps you come out confident.

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It’s Called “Polyamory”: Coming Out About Your Nonmonogamous Relationships

Raising Rosie: Parenting an Intersex Child

Raising Rosie

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When their daughter Rosie was born, Eric and Stephani Lohman found themselves thrust into a situation they were not prepared for. Born intersex – a term that describes people who are born with a variety of physical characteristics that do not fit neatly into traditional conceptions about male and female bodies – Rosie’s parents were pressured to consent to normalizing surgery on Rosie, without being offered any alternatives despite their concerns.

Part memoir, part guidebook, this powerful book tells the authors’ experience of refusing to have Rosie operated on and how they raised a child who is intersex. The book looks at how they spoke about the condition to friends and family, to Rosie’s teachers and caregivers, and shows how they plan on explaining it to Rosie when she is older. This uplifting and empowering story is a must read for all parents of intersex children.

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Glitter + Ashes: Queer Tales of a World That Wouldn’t Die

Before I start talking about dave ring you should know that the lower case ‘d’ and lower case ‘r’ in his name are intentional. That’s how he spells his name. If the choice strikes you as understated, or even humble, then it is an appropriate introduction. to the person.

dave ring is the chair of the OutWrite LGBT Book Festival. For someone who has contributed so much, he is indeed humble, and, more importantly an individual who constantly centers and uplifts a wide variety of authors. While I may have founded the festival years ago, it is volunteers like Dan Vera, Julie Enszer, and currently dave ring who have been the heart and soul of this event, which has become the biggest and most diverse celebration of queer literature on the East Coast.

dave has stories featured or forthcoming in a number of publications, including Speculative City, GlitterShip, and A Punk Rock Future. He is the publisher and managing editor of Neon Hemlock Press, as well as the editor of Broken Metropolis: Queer Tales of a City That Never Was from Mason Jar Press.

His most recent project is an anthology of post-apocalyptic short stories entitled “Glitter + Ashes: Queer Tales of a World That Wouldn’t Die”. dave writes ” Our aim is to feature speculative stories that explore ramifications of the apocalypse through queer narratives. We want queer stories and we want trans stories and we want indefinable stories.  We will welcome a broad interpretation of the post-apocalyptic genre; we’ll want to finds scraps of hope in every ruined future.”

This project is being funded on Kickstarter. I hope you will join me in supporting this project by ordering an advance copy of the book online today.

Click here to visit the Kickstarter Page for Glitter + Ashes

Find out more about my friend Dave Ring at www.dave-ring.com

Queer Activist Summer Reading List

As we approach our annual OutWrite LGBT Book Festival this summer, now is a great time to start thinking about your summer reading list.   Here are some amazing books for LGBT activists to dive into this summer.  Most of these I have already read, and a few are on my personal list to tackle this summer.

Don’t Tell Me to Wait

Kerry Eleveld

I’m very excited that Kerry Eleveld is coming to DC June 9th to talk about this new book: Don’t Tell Me to Wait: How the Fight for Gay Rights Changed America and Transformed Obama’s Presidency.   I would love this book, if only for the fact that that so may friends and fellow activists are highlighted in the book including Dan Choi, Paul Yandura, Chris Geidner, Bil Browning, Robyn McGehee, and many others.  But I think more importantly for you, this book is an important insiders look about how change actually happends in Washington, looking at both the ‘inside’ players and those of us on the outside.

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What Belongs to You

Garth Greenwell

What Belongs to You is a beautiful novel that broaches a subject often kept in the shadows: the world of hustling — gay men paying for sex. Greenwell tells the story of an American teacher working in modern-day Bulgaria, and Mitko, the young hustler he becomes enamored with. The teacher first meets Mitko in a public restroom, and returns there again and again, paying for sex. As the teacher confronts his own feelings about their arrangement, he tries to unravel Mitko’s tangled life story while revealing more of his own.”

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Love Unites Us

I am very proud to share with you that this amazing new book:Love Unites Us: Winning the Freedom to Marry in America will be the featured book at this year’s OutWrite LGBT Book Festival.   It is so important to take time to look back and see how far we have come as a movement.   “The June 2015 decision in Obergefell v. Hodges is a sweeping victory for the freedom to marry, but it was one step in a long process. Love Unites Us is the history of activists’ passion and persistence in the struggle for marriage rights for same-sex couples in the United States, told in the words of those who waged the battle.”

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Baltimore

Lady Dane Edidi

For a brief time last year the country focused attention on the Baltimore Protests in the wake of the death of Freddie Gray while in police custody.  Of course, to really understand what happened you have to know the history of Baltimore.   Who better to give us a glimpse into this world than transgender performance artist Lady Dane Edidi, who began her studies at the Baltimore School for the Arts.

Lady Dane’s collection:  Baltimore: a Love Letter (A Book of Poetry and other Writings) is a wonderful collection, but it is the powerful title poem is my favorite, exactly because it shows you Baltimore through Lady Dane’s eyes.   I first heard Lady Dane Edidi read this poem at the 2015 Capturing Fire Festival, and I highly recommend it.

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Queer Brown Voices

“In the last three decades of the twentieth century, LGBT Latinas/os faced several forms of discrimination. The greater Latino community did not often accept sexual minorities, and the mainstream LGBT movement expected everyone, regardless of their ethnic and racial background, to adhere to a specific set of priorities so as to accommodate a “unified” agenda. To disrupt the cycle of sexism, racism, and homophobia that they experienced, LGBT Latinas/os organized themselves on local, state, and national levels, forming communities in which they could fight for equal rights while simultaneously staying true to both their ethnic and sexual identities. Yet histories of LGBT activism in the 1970s, 1980s, and 1990s often reduce the role that Latinas/os played, resulting in misinformation, or ignore their work entirely, erasing them from history.”

Queer Brown Voices: Personal Narratives of Latina/o LGBT Activism is the first book published to counter this trend, documenting the efforts of some of these LGBT Latina/o activists.

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Ain’t Gonna Let Nobody Turn Me Around

“As an organizer, writer, publisher, scholar-activist, and elected official, Barbara Smith has played key roles in multiple social justice movements, including Civil Rights, feminism, lesbian and gay liberation, anti-racism, and Black feminism. Her four decades of grassroots activism forged collaborations that introduced the idea that oppression must be fought on a variety of fronts simultaneously, including gender, race, class, and sexuality. By combining hard-to-find historical documents with new unpublished interviews with fellow activists, this book uncovers the deep roots of today’s “identity politics” and “intersectionality” and serves as an essential primer for practicing solidarity and resistance.”

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Eating Fire: My Life as a Lesbian Avenger

Kelly Cogswell was at the DC Center last summer discussing this book and I’m so glad I got a chance to meet her.   The Lesbian Avengers played such an important role in our movement yet there is not as much historical information out there about them as one might like.

“When Kelly Cogswell plunged into New York’s East Village in 1992, she had just come out. An ex–Southern Baptist born in Kentucky, she was camping in an Avenue B loft, scribbling poems, and playing in an underground band, trying to figure out her next move. A couple of months later she was consumed by the Lesbian Avengers, instigating direct action campaigns, battling cops on Fifth Avenue, mobilizing 20,000 dykes for a march on Washington, D.C., and eating fire—literally—in front of the White House.”

At once streetwise and wistful, Eating Fire is a witty and urgent coming-of-age memoir spanning two decades, from the Culture War of the early 1990s to the War on Terror.

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