Philadelphia takes action to support Trans & GNC youth

Trans and Nonbinary Youth in Philadelphia

PHILADELPHIA — Effective July 11, 2022, the Philadelphia Commission on Human Relations (PCHR) has enacted regulations that expand legal protections for transgender and gender nonconforming youth. The regulations create affirmative obligations for institutions serving youth to ensure that their environments are free of discrimination. The legislation requiring these regulations was introduced by Councilmember Helen Gym (At-Large) and passed by City Council in 2019 in conjunction with two other bills designed to promote dignity, safety, and inclusion in the City of Philadelphia.

The regulations also:

  • Require that all institutions serving youth use the name and pronouns that correspond to a youth’s identity.
  • Require institutions to take reasonable steps to prevent and promptly correct any derogatory or offensive langue used in communication with or in reference to a transgender or gender nonconforming youth.
  • Ensure privacy and confidentiality of the transgender or gender nonconforming youth’s identity.
  • Require institutions provide access to restrooms, locker rooms, and dressing rooms that correspond to a transgender or gender nonconforming youth’s identity.
  • Require institutions post a written policy of non-discrimination and conduct regular training to prevent, identify, and respond to bullying, harassment, and discrimination against transgender and gender nonconforming youth.


“I am extremely proud of this work because these regulations demonstrate the City of Philadelphia’s commitment to ensuring supportive and inclusive environments for all children,” said Kia Ghee, Executive Director for Philadelphia Commission on Human Relations. “At a time when constitutional protections feel less certain, these regulations build upon the antidiscrimination protections provided in the Fair Practices Ordinance and emphasize the City’s commitment to protecting children and youth who are much more likely to be subject to unlawful harassment in school and other institutional settings.”

“With the disturbing and increasing amount of anti-trans legislation that targets trans youth, these reforms represent welcome, needed progress and are just one of the many reasons that Philadelphia is consistently recognized as one of the most LGBTQ-friendly cities in the country,” said Celena Morrison, Executive Director of the Office of LGBT Affairs. “We will continue to support our trans and gender nonconforming communities in every possible way.”

“Our City is deeply committed to ensuring all trans and non-binary youth thrive, flourish, and feel valued,” said Councilmember Helen Gym. “These protections were informed and championed by Philadelphia’s young people themselves. By centering their voices, we are shaping a more just, accessible, and welcoming city for all. In the absence of federal and state protections, and especially amidst increasing and vile attacks against trans youth, these reforms prove that Philadelphia will always stand with our trans and non-binary communities and advance bold policies to protect them.”

PCHR is Philadelphia’s official civil rights agency ensuring equal rights and opportunities for all. The agency investigates complaints of discrimination on the basis of race, ethnicity, color, sex (including pregnancy, childbirth, or a related medical condition), sexual orientation, gender identity, religion, national origin, ancestry, age, disability, marital status, source of income, familial status, genetic information and domestic or sexual violence victim status. If you believe that you have been subjected to unlawful discrimination or have any questions, please contact PCHR at 215-686-4670 or visit our website at www.phila.gov/pchr.

Kids chicken fingers. Three vodka sodas.

Gay Rehoboth Beach, LGBT Rehoboth Beach Delaware

By Robert Dominic

The summer season is in full swing. Share houses in gay enclaves like Provincetown, Fire Island, Asbury Park, and yes, Rehoboth Beach are open for business. The new
rom-com “Fire Island” on Hulu perfectly captures the joy of spending time in a house on the beach with your chosen family. Or a bunch of randoms you are just meeting for the first time.

For the past three summers, I have had the joy to spend three months living at the beach in Rehoboth. I likened Rehoboth Beach to my summer boyfriend. I was single and gloriously in love with RB. We were very happy together!

Mornings I biked to Rise gym, to get my sweat on – or to sweat out the two or six spiked seltzers consumed during afternoons at Poodle Beach. Nights we usually chilled at home netflixing. (This was in the middle of the COVID-19 lockdown so things were very different, as you probably remember.)

On a rare night out in town (ok, maybe not so rare), I enjoyed Aqua, The Pines, Arenas, Diegos. Drag Bingo at the Moon was fun and I know the theme was “old lady” but the energy was too low for me. Drag Brunch at 251? Yes! I do love me a drag show. Brunch was OFF THE CHARTS fun. Performances were amaze: “Escapade,” “Part of Your World.” YES! The drinks were flowing, the food was – well, let’s just say I left hungry. Then again, who goes to drag brunch for the food?

As happy as my new BF and I were, it was time to get back “out there”. Riding out a pandemic, single, in NYC? We need a new word for celibacy. As the country moved into new phases of opening up, it was time for Robby to move into phase two. Hooking up!

A major impediment to this hooking up is cockblock Covid. I am not great at the apps, even though I did set up a Scruff account once the bars and clubs shut down. I’m old school. I prefer to go to a gay bar, meet someone, flirt, pick them up, take them home. No muss no fuss. Covid made that impossible. Once the bars opened back up, there was still no way to socialize and mingle. It was all stay at your table, no mingling, no socializing with strangers. F U COVID.

I wasn’t even able to use my new pick up line. “My name is Robert, I have the antibodies.” Yes, that is true. Back in February 2020 I was pretty sick for a weekend. Felt fluish, in bed for two days, unable to read a book or watch a movie. But it was only two days. The cough did linger for a week. I think I was exposed at a Super Bowl party. When my friend Mike and I were poolside I loved to shout, “Don’t worry I have the antibodies,” he loved to counter it with, “The antibodies don’t last forever.” Buzzkill! (He was right, my antibodies disappeared a few months later.)

Back to the apps, as mentioned, not great on them. It’s hard for me to pull the trigger. I wind up telling people they’re hot and never meeting face-to-face. So, conundrum! Can’t pick up a stranger in a bar, can’t pick them up online. What is Robby to do? I’m youngish, not a troll, I should be hooking up! One night, a housemate k!ocked on my door asking to borrow lube. I didn’t even have any to give him. And not because I ran out. Because I had no reason to buy any. If that is not the saddest sentence I ever wrote.

Enough was enough. It was beyond time to get back on the horse.

Leaving Poodle beach one afternoon, I decided to bike through town and walk around. Bought a book and decided I was thirsty and hungry. I sat in the Biergarten at Purple Parrot and discovered it’s their happy hour! My favorite hours! I ordered a drink and my bartender asked if I wanted food. I was craving chicken fingers (a Robby fave), so I asked for them and he said they aren’t on the menu but they have them. I then notice another bartender, very cute – well, cute with a mask on – mask cute.

While the other bartender was taking care of me, the “new hot bartender” asked how my day was. He was being nice, personable – a bartender. I, living in my own rom-com, wondered if this was flirting. Throughout my meal, I needed to get some water so I went up to the bar and he asked me what I was reading. Did I need to go buy lube?

At the end of my meal, with some liquid courage, I felt like I could ask him his name, and maybe exchange social media info. As I asked for my check. “Which table are you at again?” he asked. I point to the table, he brings up my check. “Kid’s chicken fingers, three vodka sodas? Is this you?”

Yep, that is me. Kid’s chicken fingers. Three vodka sodas. Good title for my memoir.

“Dude. Best check ever,” Hot Bartender laughed and smiled, “Have a good one.”

And with that, dude (me) I paid the bill and biked home. No one is hooking up with kid’s chicken fingers. Biking home I took the long way around and spent some time adoring the scenery and sights of Rehoboth Beach…I mean he was my summer boyfriend!

Robert is a freelance writer living in Brooklyn, NY. He loves visiting Rehoboth Beach as often as he can. Follow him on Instagram at robb_dedo.